Chapter 1: The Challenge of Consistency

In my twenties, staying consistent was a formidable hurdle. I made the impulsive decision to leave a reputable university against my parents' advice, took up a job, and soon abandoned it after just a month. Job hopping became my norm until I found a role at a department store. Unfortunately, the pressure from my manager regarding sales led me to resign once more.

As a high school graduate in South Korea, my career options were limited, and the compensation was far from satisfying. My arrogance had consequences, prompting me to return to college. I dedicated myself to my studies, earned scholarships, and worked part-time to cover my tuition and expenses. Eventually, I transferred to a better university and graduated.

Yet, the job I secured afterward felt misaligned with my aspirations. I continued to study to enhance my qualifications. My next position was stifling; while my colleagues were pleasant and the tasks manageable, I felt drained every day, yearning for something more fulfilling.

After a year, I opted for another job change, accepting a significant pay cut to pursue a career I truly desired. Initially, it was promising, but the challenges mounted as time went on. I often found myself returning home at 4 a.m., only to rise again at 8. I told myself, "This isn't the life I envisioned." So, I quit once again.

I set my sights on becoming a flight attendant, eager for the opportunity to travel abroad. I dedicated myself fully and made it to the final interview, but unfortunately, I was not selected and returned to Korea.

Reflecting on my experiences upon my return, I realized that I had failed to commit to anything for over two years. This time, I resolved to not only start but also follow through with dedication.

Section 1.1: A New Beginning

Determined to pursue a path consistently while supporting myself, I avoided applying to traditional companies, doubting that anyone would hire someone in their late twenties. Within a week of being back, I secured a position as an English teacher at a private academy (commonly known as a cram school) and poured my heart into the role.

I continually reminded myself to remain in the same field for at least two years, pushing through any stress, complaints, or challenges that arose. The first year was tough, as I battled daily stress and felt disheartened, believing I had no choice but to work in Korea.

However, as I gradually adjusted to my new life, things became more manageable. In the following year, I focused on preparing for studying abroad and began to appreciate my growth during my time in Korea.

Subsection 1.1.1: Building a Foundation for the Future

Preparing for the possibility of studying in Australia, but also considering the worst-case scenario of returning to Korea after completing my studies without securing permanent residency, I made a strategic decision to gather experience as an English teacher.

As a result, I flourished in my teaching role. I immersed myself in research and drew inspiration from others, adopting innovative teaching methods that intrigued my colleagues, prompting them to inquire about my approaches.

In an unexpected turn, even the academy's director questioned why I would contemplate going to Australia when I could thrive right there. The children I taught were delightful, and the work itself brought immense joy. I was astounded by how quickly my memory and efficiency improved.

Chapter 2: Resilience Through Teaching

Being an English teacher in Korea served as my final role before potentially relocating to Australia, instilling in me the strength to face challenges in any profession. It taught me the importance of resilience, urging me to persist rather than escape and cultivating a positive mindset that could transform difficult days into enjoyable ones.

Thanks to the invaluable lessons from that experience, when I embarked on my journey as a newly graduated nurse, I understood the road ahead would be challenging. However, I faced these challenges with renewed determination, knowing I could withstand whatever came my way.

Now, I can confidently assert that I have developed the fortitude to endure adversity, even in tough times. This newfound strength empowers me to confront any obstacle with resilience and determination.

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As I observe others yearning to escape their current situations or dreaming of living abroad without clear direction, I wish to offer a more optimistic viewpoint. Instead of merely viewing your time as a stepping stone to leave, see it as an opportunity to cultivate the inner strength that allows for happiness, even in challenging circumstances. Simply relocating won't resolve all your issues.

Instead of fixating solely on escape, it is far more advantageous to pinpoint the specific challenges that trouble you and explore ways to either overcome or accept them. While some may criticize their systems or working conditions, it's crucial to remember that every place has its own unique difficulties. By building resilience and learning to endure through the toughest situations, one can cultivate the ability to find happiness regardless of external circumstances. The key to contentment lies within oneself.

As poignantly expressed in the manga "Berserk," there is no paradise awaiting those who flee. Every new location may present its own set of challenges. Thus, it is essential to develop the inner strength to confront and navigate through difficulties, wherever life may lead. Only by doing so can true happiness be discovered, transcending external circumstances and finding fulfillment within.

I hope you find your paradise in your current situation. It will give you the strength you need to thrive. Best of luck!